Rachel is a significant figure in the scriptures, whose story appears in the Book of Genesis. But who was Rachel’s husband in the Bible and how did their story of love unfold?
In this article, we will answer this question and other important ones using biblical references and examples. The Bible reveals several exceptional women who, although not perfect, lived a life that inspires believers to remain steadfast in their Christian journey.
Rachel is among the women who played a significant role in ensuring that God’s promises to Abraham came to pass. While Rachel’s story may not have the perfect ending, the impact she made in her generation cannot be underestimated.
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Let’s find out who Rachel’s husband was, focusing on their love journey and the key lessons to learn from them.
Who Was Rachel in the Bible?
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According to Biblical records in the Book of Genesis, in the Old Testament, Rachel is one of the daughters of Laban, Rebekah’s brother.
She is also the younger sister of Leah and the mother of Joseph and Benjamin. She was described as a beautiful lady with a lovely figure and the favorite wife of her husband. The scriptures reveal that Rachel’s husband worked for 14 years instead of 7 years because he wanted her to be his wife.
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On the other hand, Rachel’s elder sister Leah had weak eyes, which makes her less desirable compared to her younger sister. Nevertheless, both sisters married the same husband, and Leah gave birth to children several years before Rachel, resulting in sibling rivalry and envy.
Rachel can be considered a desperate, envious, and cunning woman because of the actions she took while looking for children of her own. She was also a part of the first love triangle recorded in the scriptures, with her sister and her husband being the remaining parties.
Rachel’s name means “Ewe” or “female sheep,” which relates to her occupation as a shepheredess.
Rachel’s husband is Jacob, the second son of Isaac and Rebekah, Laban’s sister. This suggests that Laban is Jacob’s uncle and Jacob is the cousin of Rachel and Leah.
He is also the grandson of Abraham and Sarah (who is the oldest woman in the Bible) and one of the fathers of the Jewish nation. Jacob, with his father Isaac and his grandfather Abraham, are the three patriarchs of Israel.
When Rebekah was pregnant with Jacob and his brother Esau, she noticed they were fighting each other in her womb. After inquiring from God the reason for this, God told her that two nations would come from both children and the older son would serve the younger son (Genesis 25:23).
As the two men grew older, Esau became Isaac’s favorite son, while Rebekah preferred her younger son Jacob. One day, Jacob tricked his brother to exchange his birthright with a bowl of stew, and his plan was successful (Genesis 25:29–34).
Another time, Jacob disguised himself as Esau to receive a fatherly blessing from Isaac, with the help of Rebekah, their mother (Genesis 27:1-29).
When Esau discovered this act of deception, he was so angry to the extent that he planned to kill his brother Jacob. Realizing that Jacob’s life was at stake, Rebekah asked Jacob to flee to his uncle Laban for safety.
Jacob’s name changed to Israel after he engaged in a great struggle with God. He had twelve sons and a daughter from four women, including concubines, who later became the Twelve Tribes of Israel.
Knowing that his life was in danger after receiving the blessing belonging to his brother Esau from their father, Jacob fled to his uncle Laban’s place in Paddan Aram (Genesis 27:43).
When Jacob got to Laban’s place, he saw some shepherds at a well watering their sheep. Then he asked after Laban, and the men told him that Laban was well and his daughter was the one approaching them with the sheep. Upon seeing Rachel, Jacob rolled the large stone that was over the well’s mouth away and watered Laban’s flock of sheep.
When he completed this huge task, Jacob kissed Rachel and introduced himself as her father’s sister Rebekah’s son. So Rachel ran to inform her father that Jacob was around, and Laban was happy to receive him into his home.
After a month of living with his uncle and working for him, Laban decided to compensate Jacob with payment for his work. But Jacob was interested in marrying his younger daughter, Rachel.
Because of the love Jacob had for Rachel, he was willing to exchange seven years of work for Laban for her hand in marriage. Laban agreed to the terms, and Jacob worked for him for seven years, but they were like a few days to him because he loved Rachel.
After seven years were over, Jacob reminded Laban of the agreement to have Rachel’s hand in marriage. Laban organized a wedding feast for Jacob and Rachel, his younger daughter.
But on the wedding night, Laban gave his older daughter Leah to Jacob instead of Rachel, with the excuse that their custom doesn’t permit the younger daughter to marry before the older one.
Laban told Jacob to work for seven more years if he was interested in marrying Rachel, and he agreed to the offer.
What is the Story of Leah, Rachel, and Jacob?
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While Jacob was working for seven additional years for Laban, Rachel was living with him as his wife. Jacob loved Rachel more than he loved her older sister Leah, who was his first wife.
When God noticed Leah lacked her husband’s love, He blessed her with four sons: Reuben, Simeon, Levi, and Judah, and gave Rachel no children.
Realizing that Leah had children and she had none, Rachel became jealous of her sister. At a point, Rachel became desperate and she went to Jacob, requesting that he give her a child or she dies (Genesis 30:1). Jacob got angry and responded, “Am I in the place of God, who has kept you from having children?” (Genesis 30:2)
Afterwards, Rachel gave her servant Bilhah to Jacob as a wife because she wanted to have children through her, according to their culture. Bilhah bore the fifth son for Jacob, who was named Dan, and the sixth son, Naphtali.
When Leah saw what Rachel did, she also gave her servant Zilpah to Jacob as a wife. Leah’s maidservant gave birth to two sons for Jacob, who were named Gad and Asher.
One day, Reuben brought mandrake plants for his mother Leah. When Rachel saw it, she asked Leah to give her some of the plants because she believed the mandrake roots would make her fertile. But Leah proposed to spend a night with Jacob in exchange for her mandrakes, and Rachel agreed.
After spending the night with Jacob, Leah got pregnant and bore another son named Issachar. She later gave birth to another son for Jacob named Zebulun and a daughter named Dinah.
Altogether, Jacob now has ten sons and a daughter from three women, excluding his second wife, Rachel.
The Birth of Rachel’s Children Joseph and Benjamin
God remembered Rachel, and she gave birth to her first son, Joseph, whose name means “God shall add.”
After Joseph’s birth, God told Jacob in a dream to go back to the land of Canaan, his father’s land. Then Jacob took his wives, children, servants, livestock, and all his belongings and set out on the journey to Canaan. However, Rachel stole some of her father’s household idols without informing her husband Jacob.
Laban wasn’t aware that Jacob was leaving, so when he found out, he chased after his son-in-law and caught up with him on the seventh day. He accused Jacob of stealing his idols, but Jacob denied doing such a thing and decreed that whoever had them would not live (Genesis 31:32).
Rachel hid the idols in her saddle and sat on them to prevent anyone from seeing them. When Laban’s men moved close to her to search for these items, Rachel said she wouldn’t be able to stand up because she was on her period. Her deception worked because Laban gave up the search for the household idols, and he and his men went back home with nothing.
After a few years, Rachel became pregnant with her second son. Sadly, she died soon after delivering her baby boy because her birth was difficult. Before Rachel died, she named her son Ben-Oni, meaning “son of my trouble” or “son of my sorrow.” However, Jacob changed the boy’s name to Benjamin, meaning “son of my right hand” (Genesis 35:18).
The Bible story of Jacob and Rachel provides relevant lessons that true believers can learn from and apply to their lives. Let’s discuss 5 of these lessons
1. You’ll Reap What You Sow
When it comes to the principle of sowing and reaping, God’s standard will never change. Not only did Jacob trick his brother Esau into giving him his birthright, but he also deceived his father into blessing him instead of Esau.
When it was Esau’s payback time, his uncle Laban deceived him into working for seven years in exchange for Rachel’s hand in marriage. But after seven years, Laban gave Rachel’s older sister Leah to Jacob to be his wife, which was not a part of their initial agreement.
This story reminds us that there’s a reward for every one of our actions, whether good or bad. Therefore, we must be careful about the way we live our lives because God will repay us accordingly.
Let’s continually meditate on the word of God in Galatians 6:7, which says, “Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.”
2. Love Requires Sacrifices
True love is proven by action and not by mere words only. Jacob served Laban for 14 years because he loved Rachel and was interested in marrying her.
People who genuinely love others can go to any length to prove their love for them. A man who genuinely loves his wife and children will prefer to go hungry than to watch them starve.
God demonstrates His love to mankind by sending Jesus Christ (see Why Did Jesus Come) , His only son, to die for our sins (John 3:16). And the Lord wants our love for others to be pure and unconditional, like the love He has for us.
If you claim to love someone and you’re always finding it hard to make sacrifices for them, it’s either you don’t love them or you don’t know what love truly means.
3. Words are Powerful
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Because Jacob didn’t know that Rachel stole her father’s household idols, he decreed that whoever took them would die (Genesis 31:32). Years later, Rachel got pregnant and died soon after giving birth to her second son, Benjamin.
As believers, we must be mindful of the things we say, regardless of the situation, because words are powerful.
Proverbs 18:21 makes us understand that “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” True Christians must never use cuss words, swear, or say demeaning words to themselves or others.
Instead of rejoicing with her older sister Leah each time she bore a child, Rachel became envious towards her, resulting in sibling rivalry.
That’s not all; Rachel became desperate and impatient to the extent of deciding to have children for Jacob through her maid Bilhah.
Jealousy and envy can make a person believe nothing good is happening in their lives, resulting in sadness, anger, and bitterness.
So as children of God, we must learn to rejoice with those who are rejoicing while patiently waiting for God to answer our secret prayers.
5. Trust in God’s Plan
God has a way of making all things work together for our good, so we must trust in His plans. There’s a possibility that Rachel has given up on having children of her own because she was barren for several years.
Eventually, she experienced a turning point in her life when she got pregnant and gave birth to Joseph.
If you study the life of Joseph, you’d realize that God had a divine purpose for his life, and without him, several people would have died due to starvation.
God’s ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts, according to Isaiah 55:8. This is one of the reasons we must trust in Him completely and never lean on our understanding.
If you’ve been praying for certain things and you’ve not received answers to your prayers, don’t lose hope. At the appointed time, God will grant your request in a way that you don’t expect.
Conclusion
Rachel’s story reminds us that God sees beyond our imperfections, and He won’t give up on us even if we give up on ourselves. All we need to do is follow His divine directions and leading even when the future seems unclear. Jacob and Rachel lived a life worthy of emulation, and so we must do the same as Christians.
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