Of all the twins mentioned in the Bible, Jacob and his twin brother Esau are the most popular because of their interesting life story. In this article, we will discuss the series of events that made Esau lose his birthright and blessings, and the lessons to learn from them as followers of Christ in this modern age.
Let’s begin with the introduction of the twins from the biblical account of Abraham’s son Isaac in the book of Genesis.
Who Were Esau and Jacob in the Bible?
Esau and Jacob are the first twins mentioned in the Bible, whose story can be found in the book of Genesis chapters 25-33, in the Old Testament. They were the twin sons of Isaac and Rebekah, and the grandchildren of Abraham and his wife Sarah.
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According to the book of Genesis 25:20-28, when Isaac’s wife Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel, conceived after many years of marriage, the babies jostled each other in her womb. So she went to inquire from God why this was happening and the Lord said to her,
“Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the older shall serve the younger.” (Genesis 25:23)
When it was time for Rebekah to give birth, she noticed that they were twin boys. The first twin came out with a red skin that looked like a hairy garment, and he was given the name Esau. Afterwards, the second twin came out with his hand on his brother’s heel, and he was named Jacob.
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Esau grew up to become a skilled hunter, and Jacob, the younger twin, preferred to stay at home. Obviously, these two men were not identical twins, and their ways of life and interests differ.
Now, Isaac enjoyed eating wild game, and this made him love Esau, his firstborn son, who was a hunter. On the other hand, Rebekah loved Jacob more, probably because he spent enough time with her at home.
Isaac and Rebekah’s parental favoritism caused a serious conflict between their twin sons later.
Being a man of the field, Esau came home one day hungry and met his younger brother cooking red stew. He asked Jacob to give him some of the stew because he was hungry.
Jacob agreed to give his older brother the stew on the condition that he would sell his birthright. Esau quickly agreed to sell his birthright in exchange for the stew, with the excuse that he was about to die.
Since Jacob was a cunning man who doesn’t like to leave anything to chance, he asked his brother to swear an oath to him first. Esau must have been very hungry because he swore the oath without hesitation. Realizing that Esau had met his demands, Jacob gave him lentil stew with bread.
The biblical history of how Jacob’s twin brother Esau sold his birthright for a bowl of stew is in the book of Genesis 25:29-34.
Jacob Receives Esau’s Blessings
When Isaac was old and he could no longer see, he assumed that the day of death was near. So he called his favorite son Esau and asked him to prepare a tasty meal for him from his hunted wild game to receive a fatherly blessing.
As Esau and his father Isaac were having a conversation, Rebekah was listening to everything in their discussions.
Esau left the house to carry out the duty requested of him, and Rebekah told Jacob everything about their father’s blessing. She further asked Jacob to bring two goats for her so that she could prepare a delicious meal for her husband Isaac.
The plan was that Jacob would take the food to their father and pretend as though he were his older son Esau. After Isaac eats the food, he will give Jacob the blessings of Esau.
Rebekah’s plan sounded good to Jacob, but there was a problem: Esau was a hairy man while he had smooth skin. Jacob raised this concern to his mother, and she asked him not to worry but to instead follow her instructions.
Jacob went to get two goats as instructed and brought them to his mother to prepare for their father. In a bid to make Jacob appear like her eldest son, Esau, Rebekah took some of his clothes and gave them to Jacob to wear. She also covered the smooth parts of his body with goatskins to make him appear hairy.
Once everything was set, Jacob took the delicious food and some bread prepared by his mother to his father. Isaac was convinced that Jacob was Esau from his smell and hairy skin, so he ate the food and blessed him. (Genesis 27:1-29).
Esau Plans to Revenge
Not too long after Jacob left Isaac’s presence, Esau finished preparing his meal and brought it to his father. Isaac was surprised when Esau asked him to sit up and eat, and he asked who he was.
It didn’t take too long for both father and son to know that Jacob had deceived them. Then it occurred to Esau that Jacob had taken advantage of him the second time after stealing his birthright the first time.
Esau tearfully pleaded with his father Isaac to bless him, but there were no more blessings for him. As a result of this act of deception, Esau was angry with his brother Jacob and vowed to kill him.
When Rebekah heard about Esau’s plan, he told Jacob to go to her brother’s place in Harran for safety. Jacob went to the house of his uncle Laban and stayed there for many years. (Genesis 27:30-45).
What Happened to Jacob and Esau?
In later years, Jacob married the two daughters of his uncle Laban and their two maids and gave birth to twelve sons and a daughter. Furthermore, Jacob’s name changed to Israel when he had an encounter with God. (Genesis 32:22-32)
Esau also got married and had five sons altogether from his wives, and he’s considered the father of the Edomites, and his descendants are known as the Edomites.
During the time Jacob prepared to meet Esau after everything that happened between them, he sent many livestock as gifts to appease him. Esau said to him, “I already have plenty, my brother. Keep what you have for yourself.” (Genesis 33:9). This implies that Jacob’s deception did not prevent Esau from becoming successful. Both men had their families, livestock, servants, wealth, and many possessions.
3 Lessons from the Esau and Jacob’s Story in the Bible
The story of Jacob and his twin Esau in the Bible is full of life lessons that can make a great impact in the lives of believers. While these lessons are numerous, let’s talk about 3 of them.
1. God’s Timing is the Best
Isaac married Rebekah when he was forty years old, and they had their first children when he was sixty years old (Genesis 25:20 and Genesis 25:26). This means the couple had to wait for twenty years before having their first children. Nevertheless, Isaac and Rebekah did not lose their faith in God because of this serious challenge.
The Bible says in Genesis 25:21, “Isaac pleaded with the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was unable to have children. The LORD answered Isaac’s prayer, and Rebekah became pregnant with twins.” Hence, the birth of Jacob and Esau proves that God’s timing is the best, and we must learn to patiently wait for Him.
Some times, you may desperately want certain things to go your own way. And when these things don’t happen at the time you desire, you may think God doesn’t want to answer your prayers. However, understand that God is never too early or too late, but He’s always right on time.
As you patiently and prayerfully seek the face of God to grant your requests, don’t engage in ungodly acts out of desperation. Continue to trust and obey the Lord and know that He makes everything beautiful in its time (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
2. Learn to Exercise Self-Control
Esau lost his birthright and blessings because he couldn’t control his hunger for a short period. He exchanged something as valuable as his birthright with a bowl of stew without considering the long-term implications of his decision. By the time Esau knew the gravity of his actions, it had become too late for him.
Esau’s story teaches us the importance of exercising self-control in every aspect of our lives. Self-control is one of the fruits of the spirit that all followers of Christ must possess because of its physical and spiritual importance. Challenges and temptations would come, and it is the ability to discipline yourself that will make you overcome them and grow spiritually.
Jesus found Himself in the same situation as Esau after fasting for forty days and forty nights, according to the biblical records in Matthew 4:1-11. But unlike Esau, he did not allow the enemy to entice him with wordly pleasures that fade away quickly. Instead, Jesus endured hunger because He knew the glorious destiny ahead of Him.
Follow the example of Jesus Christ by learning to discipline yourself at all times. Also remember that there’s no limit to the terrible things that can happen to believers who lack self-control.
3. Actions have Consequences
Jacob was a cunning man who successfully deceived his twin brother and father with the support of his mother, Rebekah. However, he later realized that actions have repercussions, and whatever a man sows, he will reap.
During the time Jacob was living with his uncle Laban, he fell in love with his daughter Rachel and desired to marry her. Then, he made an agreement with Laban to work for seven years without receiving payment in exchange for Rachel’s hand in marriage.
After seven years were over, Laban gave his older daughter Leah to Jacob on his wedding night instead of Rachel. Jacob had to work for seven additional years before he could marry the woman he truly desired.
Just as Jacob deceived his family members, he was also deceived by his uncle. In the book of Galatians 6:7, the Bible made it crystal clear that, “Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.”
Therefore, we must be mindful of our behaviors toward others because what we do to others will be done to us.
Final Thoughts
Even though Esau lost his birthright and fatherly blessings, this did not prevent him from receiving God’s blessings. God already made certain promises to Abraham, the grandfather of Esau and Jacob. And even though the twin brothers encountered challenges in their life journey, they both overcame them.
The biblical story of Esau and Jacob is proof that nothing can change God’s plan and promises in the lives of His children. We also learn that our imperfections and shortcomings don’t change the way God sees us because His love is steadfast and unconditional.
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